
30 JULY 2019
We’re fast approaching the month that celebrates one of the biggest and noted feminist actions in our country, and so it is only fitting that I open the month with a talk about something that has affected women for centuries and still does even in the present day, the legalisation of abortions. In South Africa, termination of pregnancy in the first trimester is legal. Be that as it may, there is still a lot of stigma and victimisation of women particularly young women when it comes to termination of pregnancy or abortion as it is commonly known.
The Zuma administration surprised the country when termination of pregnancies for girls as young as twelve were legalised, whilst the legal age for partaking in sexual activities is sixteen. It left the country in dismay and at the centre of it all was and still is the question of morals and some sort of moral high ground that everyone is expected to gravitate towards.
Recently there has been an uproar around the pieces of legalisation concerning termination of pregnancies, illegal abortion clinics, the propaganda around abortion and the exclusion of transgender persons when it comes to the conversation around termination of pregnancy. The “Heartbeat Bill” of the state of Alabama, was at the centre of this conversation. The bill advocates that a woman cannot terminate a pregnancy at six weeks, because the foetus already has a heartbeat.
This uproar brought about a conversation that a lot of people have been avoiding and would much rather not have, because of, of course the moral high ground that everyone is expected to gravitate towards. This then begs the question, whose morals and whose moral high ground? Why is it that you’re able to shove your own moral beliefs in my face, but can’t take the fact that as a human being I have the right to choice?
My overall point is, if I were to be atheist your argument about religion and moral beliefs wouldn’t matter to me, because science already confirms that I did not kill anyone. Legally and scientifically a foetus is not considered to be its own person when it is not viable. This is when the foetus is still in its embryo-blastocyst-foetal stage.
Let me take you to a little biology class. After fertilisation (the sperm cell has fused with the egg cell), we now have what we call an embryo. The embryo then develops by multiplication of cells that form a cluster of cells that is now called a blastocyst. The cells then continue to specialise and become different parts of the body, as these cells are specialising the foetus is then formed. At this stage, the foetus is still not considered to be viable, because if you were to take it out of the mother’s womb and put it in an incubator, the foetus would not be able to survive on its own. The survival of any living being is not determined by the heartbeat but rather by the brain and its development. Without the brain the heart itself cannot function, so the biggest thing that makes a person be a living being first and foremost is their central nervous system which is the brain and the spinal cord, and in the early foetal stages the central nervous system in the foetus is not even by a long shot close to be being properly developed. That is viability.
So, all the slurs of being a murder from your everyday pro-lifers are nothing but a swing at you to attempt making you feel guilty about making a choice concerning your body and your capacity to decide the state of your own readiness or just not wanting a child. In the eyes of the law, with the number of months within which you can terminate a pregnancy, termination is as good as having an organ transplant or just another medical procedure done.
The other thing, which is by far the biggest at the forefront of this conversation, is choice. Termination of pregnancy is a choice. It is a choice that every person can have over their body. Women have the right to choose whether they are physically ready to carry a child to full term or not. Pregnancy is a very dangerous and strenuous period, both physically and mentally to the pregnant. So, it requires the woman to be ready on all fronts. The biggest injustice would be seeing a woman endanger herself in carrying a child whilst she knows very well that she can’t.
The biggest injustice would be seeing a woman forced to face a fear and danger to her life that will scar her for the rest of her life if not taken by it, when she is not ready to do so. The biggest injustice would be seeing a woman forced to carry a child when she knows that she is not equipped to do so. The biggest injustice would be seeing a woman forced to carry a child, when she didn’t want to, when she didn’t need to, when she shouldn’t have to, when she could have definitely chosen not to.
Only an incubator can’t choose to take into storage or not. Shulamith Firestone, the cofounder of Redstockings which held the first public speak-outs on abortion believed that oppression of women had its basis in biology itself, and that women would not be truly liberated until they freed themselves from the biological imperative of giving birth. I strongly believe that I don’t need to quote a famous radical feminist to tell you that we as women, only because we are able to carry and give birth to a child we are certified to having to carry one.
We as women do not need to have something as tragic as rape and sexual assault happen in order for us to have a sensible enough reason to tap out of having children. If men get to have a choice to opt out of a pregnancy or opt out of having and taking care of a child, then surely women should be offered the same courtesy too. Termination of pregnancy is one of the options to achieve such. As it stands in South Africa, the number of single mothers is way higher than the number of single fathers.
Even the number of children growing up with single mothers is higher than the number of children growing up in a home with both mother and father, or with the two co-parenting. Women have no other option but to stay with their children, whilst men leave them without a second thought. Even in the rarest of moments when the woman relinquishes herself of any responsibilities to the child, the child is most likely to end up with the family of the father than the father himself.
It is rather quite difficult to carry a child for nine months and give that child up for adoption. Whilst there are chances that your child will have a good life and be happy, there will be repercussions later in your and the child’s life. In most cases the child will come back seeking answers as to why you had to give her up for adoption. Whilst she had a very good life, but the fact that the person who carried her for nine months and went through hours of labour did not love her enough to keep her will still psychologically scar the child, or at least the thought of it being a possibility no matter the reassurance of it not.
This is a lifelong trauma that you’re dooming a child who did not ask to come into this world to, a child you could have decided to not bring into this world, trauma and psychological torment for you and the child that could have been avoided. In anyway pro-lifers would much rather go around preaching their morals than adopt a child, offer a sandwich to a homeless person or give a packet of sanitary towels to a young girl who can’t afford them.
We must remember that children are a blessing to others, and to others they’re so much of a blessing that why would a mother want to bring a child into a world that is so messed up, a world that the mother herself is still trying to understand and conquer or a world where the mother still can’t afford.
Either way, everyone should be afforded a chance to choose whether they want to have extra responsibility, someone else that will be a priority and someone else who, once is born, the state will do everything in its power to put his or her best interests first.

